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psychojoe said..
Nah. An intellectual first needs to respect the opinion of another before they can be offended by it.
Ahh no, I think I agree with you but also don't.
Would you be offended if a little kid wandered up to you and accidentally punched you in the nuts? No, you would try and laugh it off and keep away from the little ****, but you wouldn't be offended.
If someone you respected though because you followed their experience and took them as a well educated and logical thinker, came up to you and told you about something you disagreed with, you wouldn't be offended either but would want to work out what the differences in viewpoint were.
If it were just someone you didn't respect, you would just be wondering how to change the topic.
Maybe that's where these discussions fall down? The logical person tries to discuss things and reason them out, whereas someone else will just argue louder and get personal?