Waveless said..
Localism is another thing that can easily be solved with the same thought process. Rock up with a little respect and the majority of locals will let you be. Turn up like you own the place and don't be surprised if your car gets waxed/ wheels slashed.
I've never really understood the locals only thing. Well I do 'get it', but technically if you fully endorse 'locals only' and enforce it at your break, shouldn't you then not surf any other break... ever?
What I'm saying is yeah, try the other person's shoes on just for a moment...