Terry, that rope he suggested is not climbing rope.
Climbing rope is not bulked up to make it easier to pull on, you don't pull on it.
The rope is only there to catch you if you fall, you pull on the rock.
The outer core of climbing rope is very tightly woven to prevent as much dirt intrusion as possible, most are also dry coated so that water falls off them and not soaks through to leave your dreaded salt crystals.
Climbing rope is balls strong and yes the sheath does contribute to that strength, but a lessor portion.
Climbing rope also has a very good 'hand', so is very easy to tie and handle.
Climbing rope would be ideal but way overated and too bulky.
The rope he has purchased is typically used for building anchors and is very strong and as it has been designed to resist sheath abrasion and dirt penetration is an ideal choice.
Now something that seems to be missing here is physics.
All of the setups shown above have quite high force multiplication built into them.
Again from the climbing world, when building a two piece anchor, the goal is never to let the angle between the arms exceed around 60 degrees.
Anything more than this and the forces start to go through the roof.
Imagine if you could tie your rope with a virtually zero slack in it.
Set up like that the forces on either end of the rope approach infinity.
You have created mechanical advantage system where a small force from the kite creates a huge force on both the spreader bar and the rope.
And coming from a climbing background where you soon learn that strange things can happen under high load whippy chord situations, I doubt that the above system using the figure 8 or the one using the small D shackle leave enough room for funky things to happen without risk of not so nice circumstances.
Below is my setup I have been playing with over winter waiting for the wind to come.
Big ring is large diametre for easy sliding and also big enough inside to not get hooked up on release. (hopefully that is, I may yet switch to a bigger one)
Sling is 22Kn rated dyneema climbing sling and note that the angle it makes is around 90 degrees so as to avoid high force multiplication.
Even at this angle the sling will see higher loads than what the kite is pulling. If it was 60 degrees, it would see equal to the kite pulling power.
Donkey dick to be removed as well as hook and a short safety made.
Also need to make a safety keeping in mind simplicity to prevent strange things happening under load and twisting/moving bits getting caught.
The ring is hard anodised 22Kn rated rap ring, don't yet know how it will fare in the salt, but is way lighter than a stainless equivalent.
That rap ring for some reason looks smaller in the photo......