Oh , and , ( and ) a fist pump forward thrust pelvic thrust kind of dance is not a gender thing , it's just a finally picking the right size sail thing.
I've always been the upper size kind of guy. 5. 8 , 6.7 , 7.8 , 8.6 now im 6.2 , 7.2 , 8.2 , 9.4 and it hurts. I'm confused , I'm most happy with 8.7 , Goldilocks size .