Yeh but often to make light of a heavy situation can be perceived as heartless, you still have total empathy for the hurt involved, but... I remember with the tsunami that hit Asia, whilst being totally aghast at what was evolving, I saw footage of the waves hitting a resort, whist freaking for those there,I did think wow look at the huge right hander almost being surf able , doesn't mean I'm heartless... Maybe even calling humour "black" might even be misconstrued as being insensitive?
About the cricket, what a great turnaround for the Aussie team and Davey Warner, not to much ****e, just get the job done... The SA's captains remark about the pitch playing the part in the Aussies first win has been shown to be just an arrogant comment of a bloke who was past his best.. Mmm sort of know how he feels...sadly