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808-Obsession said..quikdrawMcgraw said..
Upon reflection I have come to realize I have been angry latley I've had a bit on my plate, probably unnecessary to have posted this thread entirely. As allready stated I'm not above apolagiseing, so yeah Ipif anyone has taken offence to this thread (chris) I apolagies I got nothing against you or kiwis for that matter. The end.
Hey man, we've all been there. Some of us manifest emotional things in different ways. Frankly, at the moment I've got a bunch of screaming kids (not mine - I live in an apartment complex) in the common area going off their nuts doing what kids do (ie. running, yelling, knocking stuff over etc.) that's at a volume that is driving me bonkers. It's all I can do not to be some angry old b**tard yelling at them to keep the noise down from my balcony. It's tough to take a step back and realise it doesn't really frigging matter in the big scheme of things. A bit of noise, or someone dropping in on you, or sitting on your bank at the same time - it just doesn't matter in the big picture. I've seen bloody horrible things that will stay with me for life - and the memory of those sometimes influences how I interact with situations that don't warrant a reaction. First to admit I'm not perfect, but being aware of what the ACTUAL negatives in a situation are and responding rather than reacting can help. Not spruiking this at all, but tomorrow is Mental Health Day - find a mate who doesn't judge you, and have a chat. Unload some of the stuff that's p***ing you off, and you just might feel a little better. Usually works for me. If you're around Brissy (sorry, should've looked at your profile location!) send me a PM if you want an ear to bash. Always happy to listen and help a brother (or sister!) out if I can, even if it's just listening to what's p***ing you off

well said 808 .
Some surfers fear going out by them selves ...thats why he chose your spot .but you made amines by apologies ,
A prone surfer was coming up in his car from a surf zone ,saw me drive down with my SUP ,then he turned around ,introduced himself
and said he was scared at surfing by himself ,we surfed together for 2 hour ,even though he was Bazilian ,He behaved himself .
another surfer waited till i suited up and hit the water before heading out with me ,he was a clown with a cool laugh ..he was from Manly .
and reckon it was cool with only 2 dudes out ,he was like walking in dog **** ,where ever i went ,there he was

good thread ,and i think you just needed blowing off some steam ,we all have our pissed off days .