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surfershaneA said..
Ha ha, I get your rant!!!
So to my point......
My question is not which boat should I buy as there's no one answer to that and it depends on what it will be used for, but this.........Why is it that people are so opinionated, or even invested, on the subject? If I was buying a car I would get opinions but they would not come with the same fervant zeal that sail boat preferences seem to.
And on a related subject, why is it that poeple who have lived and worked in the same city and job their whole lives are experts on why a cruising life would never work? Why are people who have never owned a boat the quickest to say that it will send you broke and make you cry? Of course that is possible (maybe even probable!), but living a life that misses good things for fear of the possibility of bad things is just not the way I think.
Just thinking about it now, maybe the real qustion is, why are people so offended by the rejection of "one size fits all" advice that is often only based on perceptions rather than experience? And why do people struggle so hard to keep those of us that would walk our own path tethered to lives that are based on their own structured thinking?
I dunno. Seems the older I get the more confused I become.
T2X
Tony, I was facing the same issues as you a few months ago.
I decided that a yacht would be my alternative and urgent accommodation rather than bang my head against a blank wall in a rental place...
My issue was that I needed space for three kids a times... I have no experience sailing but would commit to learning over the next few years.
Starting with the above paragraph as an opener, I turned to a work colleague who has done reportedly a fair bit of sailing of the SA coast and ha/is building a 40 ft cat atm.
Get a trailer sailor and try out sailing first....
...but I need to live on it ASAP
There's plenty of 28 odd footers out there that are cheep... try that first...
...I have 3 kids mate
Check out a VDS there's a few nice 34s out there you should learn on that...

Not to mention what my mother thought about the idea!
I think people put themselves in others position but don't consider what others wants needs and desires are... we are very self centred creatures and like to talk about what we know about. that's the way all of us go through life and we always will.
Dare I say it, but for example have a read through Sea breeze and any other online forums... there are a massive number of posts by well meaning people that take a snippet of the initiators question and the roll on with a reply that has barely touched what the initial question was... replies are always reflection of our own experience and what we want to talk about. Que sera sera.
HG... love that woodwork!