No worries, sorry if I'm thin skinned.
I was just lucky to start as a kid with some very experienced people, who taught me about things like sitting down when on the foredeck, ensuring you don't stand on sails (which can slide out from underneath you), eyeing sheets as if they were snakes about to bite (which they will do when flogging) and all that sort of stuff. One thing that seems to be really important is pre-planning things for a while until you get them down pat, and minimise movements. I went to hoist the assy a few weekends ago and it went up with an hourglass, which just proved that practise or planning is important, and that day I didn't plan and was out of practise. Ah well, it gave my wife some amusement.
I think there's a book about the practical tips of running bow that could be written; sadly there isn't one.
As noted, for the things you do with MB a furler is probably ideal.