Slashrockson said...
As a matter of interest, whats a good age to get them into it? Got a 9 & 12yo I think they are old enough but having trouble getting them interested. I think too much time waiting for dad to come in when younger might have been the problem, now they don't want to come to the beach if I mention kiting cause its boring!!! Appreciate ideas from other dads.
... in my opinion, you got to know your kids to know what age you can start them kiting. If, like a lot of kids, they don't see results straight away then they give up too soon, especially if you have a bad day. If you can find what motivates them and work on that. Some kids are a bit more mature than others and can see past the fact that you got to do safety stuff which can be boring to them. Kids don't have patience and just wanna "do it"! Safety is paramount and I was not going to compromise safety at all and if they don't show you how to be safe then they don't go. Its a fine line between 'safety' and fun!
I started to teach my son and he constantly got bored when I harped on about safety. I constantly got, "dad, when can I have fun, not this boring stuff again"! Then one day I yelled at him, one too many times 'cause he wasn't showing me a safe attitude. Because he was compromising a safety issue, I snatched the kite off him and he didn't touch kiting for another year.
Then one day, he came to me quietly and asked to teach him again, and this time he said he'll listen properly when I talk about safety. Now he was self motivated to do it, suddenly he did the right thing and suddenly it was all fun!!!
Like you, all my kids complained the beach was boring as they had to sit and wait for hours while I was off having fun. One day I figured I'd change it.
The first step I found was to peak their interest by taking them body dragging. Leave the board on the beach, give up half an hour of your time and let them hang onto your harnes while you do a bit of body dragging. The fun and laughter, especially if you dive the kite hard and get yanked out of the water. Then, when on the beach you can mention that they can do that too,,,, if they want too! The seed was sewn.
Now my son now is almost worse than I am, every waking moment he's thinking of kiting, constantly talks about it, converstions always leads to how he can tweak his S Bends and "dad, why don't you handle pass, its great fun"! Little sh!t is getting better than me! He got himself a job at a fast food place so he can save money and buy himself new gear!! Motivation!!!
Anyway, hope this helps,
cheers,
Robbie