When I started I thought the same as all the negative comments above. Once your para skills get developed most of the issues dissappear. Just sold my last wing. Prefer the para in all ways. I am not Kai and will never do the spinny whizzy stuff wings are better for. I really enjoy just cruising around on the para and slowly improving.
Start with one quality para (4 to 5m) and use it on suitable days to build up the skills needed. Going all in too early may lead to frustration due to the negatives mentioned above. Slow transition from one to the other works well. Enjoy