Yeah as martyj4 mentioned the board may be a tough board to start on and if you could borrow a bigger board just for a few sessions I think it could help ALOT right at the start.
On the wing size and since you are 100kg maybe a good 6m would be sweet. Winging is definitely a sport where being overpowered is much better than being underpowered and even more so when learning. If you do not want to spend a fortune then we do these which are actually as good as pretty much any other wing on the market but we just sell directly these days so are quite a bit cheaper and free world wide shipping
www.oneoceansportsaustralia.com/wind-wings-shop/p/one-v2-wind-wings-online-soon Hard handles nice and stiff with heaps of power.
But these days there are heaps of good wings on the market new and used, just be careful if buying used that's its not to bagged out.