This is a very good question.The problem to me is not so much the size of the board, but the fact that slalom or speed type boards just go faster and faster as the wind strength goes up. The inherent issues there are control and comfort, even on a smaller board.
I have found it very difficult to sail on a slalom board in winds over low 20's wind on an open lake with short confused wind chop. Curiously, it is actually a bit easier sometimes on open ocean as the waves tend to be larger but more even.
Even so it is not easy. It seems very frantic and energy draining.
On my local lake in 25 knots I can only last about 15 minutes and I am pretty well stuffed. It is not just the physical energy, but also the mental stress of concentrating on not coming to grief.
My solutions in the past have been twofold:
The first is the faster ride. I have had a couple of custom Polyester/Fiberglass slalom/freeride type boards that have worked very well in those conditions. A little bit smaller than my IS87 slalom board at 8'4" X 18.5" and 8'6" x 20.5" but still a fast, flat rocker like. The big difference was the construction material. The polyester boards ride a lot smoother, less 'harsh' than epoxy boards. They seem to absorb the worst harshness and allow for a more relaxed and controlled ride. This is still only good for me up to about high 20's though. The best of them was the larger, a single stringer glassed fairly light. I think this allowed more dampening effect but unfortunately it also allowed it to be pounded out of shape a lot faster. I still have it and plan to do some major repairs so I can use it some more. It is a lot of fun.
Over 25kts, the second solution kicks in: The 74 litre wave board. The wave board is slower in rough water. The rocker line helps keep the speed down to a controllable level. Less speed equals a softer and less frantic ride. Works for me........