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westozwind said..
Get her into windsurfing (like my wife). Never any arguments about heading to the beach, and you can both have good excuses to avoid those birthday parties :)
Woe-woe-woe there, I'm not so sure about that, my first wife windsurfed, and my second doesn't, I'm still with the second one.
At first I totally agreed, I had it made, she windsurfed,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, but not as well, and was happy with mellow conditions,,,,,,,,, ooops.
There was other stuff, but this was on the list, fairly high on the list.
Windsurfing couples can have their own set of reasons to get mad at each other, not just wanting different conditions, but also how much time is spent doing it, and you have to be careful with giving advise, that can be tricky.
If you can achieve the exact same desires with conditions, and with the time spent doing it, more power to you, and consider yourself seriously lucky, I hope you are.
I'm a windsurfing fanatic, always have been, my schedule revolves around the wind (self-employed), so only two kinds of woman could work for me.
She would have to be equally fanatic, in the waves, as much time as possible,,,,, or completely uninterested, and happy for me to go out and get as much as I can. Because she knows that the man that has a wonderful outlet like that, makes a better man.
That's what I have now, been together for over 10 years, couldn't be happier, and she hates the wind, and is afraid of sharks. We SUP together tho, but only on flat water (for her) which is fine, no wind anyway.
But that's just me.