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nebbian said...
One other thing is that you're possibly going too downwind on one tack and trying to pinch back too high upwind on the other tack, this happens to me in unfamiliar places when I'm not too sure of the wind angle.
This is almost certainly the problem.
For some reason people tend to sail out and back on the same track on days when the wind can be about 45 degrees different. e.g. SSW round to West.
If the wind is 45 degrees off the usual, say SW, then the track should also be 45 degrees different. Otherwise you end up with exactly the problem you describe.
The odd thing is, on most days the whole crew belts back and forwards on the same track regardless of wind direction.
So I do too.

If this is the case then the problem solves itself on some days when the wind is exactly right for the usual track out and back.
Otherwise, you can break with tradition and sail a different track to everyone else and be comfortable.