What brand of 430 is it? They all have stiffness standardised to IMCS 21 these days but their curves vary.
The curve doesn't have to be exact for camless sails but you must avoid mixing mast and sail from opposite extremes and try to find reasonably close matches.
The Unifiber mast selector is very helpful guide to compatability:
www.unifiber.net/masts-selectorSomething to keep in mind for the rest of you quiver is that you will find the most cross brand compatibility between masts and sails if you stick to constant curve. Theres nothing wrong with the others though.
A 430 will fit sails from about 5.5 to 6.5 or 6.8 max. Manufacturers all post sail specs on line. Anything with a luff length longer than 430 and less than 430+the length of your extension will fit.
Your wife may prefer using short masts and a long extension rather than a mast that fits with very little extension because shorter masts are softer and nicer to sail for light weight sailors. It's not that important when you're learning but when you go blasting in gusty winds a forgiving mast is a joy. That wont fit your criteria now but it's something to keep in mind.