First, I must thank you all (well most

) for the responses. While this truly was actual events, the responses made it kind of a social experiment. You will be all pleased (and me a bit surprised...I must have been biased) to find out the the responses on the Kiter forum turned out to be less hospitable than these responses

...Interesting.
Yesterday I spoke to a different "local"(living here for 13 years) and he agreed with what you all said. Safety First. I didn't have the Right of way to either wave. I messed up by being at the crest while the windsurfer was on the wave, but at that point, didnt have much choice, so windsurfer was an ass and possibly thought I was snaking his wave. He said it happens even to him (pretty much pro at both kiting and windsurfing). Learn, be polite.
To address others:
Mark:Firstly I wanna clarify how a windsurfer riding a wave continually performed turns 1m away from a kiter who is upwind of him.....?
I dont see the issue your having here? Picture kiter at crest riding relatively straight cause he cant move. 1M away is a wndsurfer who is doing top and bottom turns. Any diving of kite MAY hit him(probably not due to winds, but too close to try)...until I pickep up speed and was able to use kite to get ahead and then around him. Maybe I dont understand what you dont understand.
Goes to next point:
Sea Lotus:1: if you were able to "chicken jibe" behind him that means there was a pretty safe gap between you and him,
I wasnt "behind him...I was in front of him. My chicken gybe put me upwind and on the crest. He was downwind.
Sea Lotus:you could have easily jibed off the wave if you felt in danger when space between you got smaller.
Even in retrospect, I dont see how hat was remotely a possibility. How? When? With what room? Gybe off the wave? I dont understand. When I gybed, I alread gybed and then there was NO space...so how would I gybe "off the wave?...you mean crash into the windsurfer 1 meter away?...Yeah, I dont think I conveyed what happened if you are not getting the visual. The space was small immediately. What I "could have" done to prevent this is tacked further out and more downwind long beforehand. Once there with the wave starting to break, I was SOL.
Sea Lotus: If it was so tight and you had to bottom turn in front of him, why top turn?
Ahhh.. I think I misunderstood you here. Once I was downwind of him, I did top turn and I was now way on the shoulder and he was far away, but you are right, probably a bad move...guess that was just instinctual.
Sea Lotus:2: why would she back off a wave she is on when someone jibes 200ft behind her? She probably wouldn't even see you jibe if she was trying hard to ride it looking down the line.
Again, not sure you are understanding. No one was behind her. I was upwind and in front of her. Kite lines are abut 78 feet(24M). 2 together 48M, with larger turning radii. If I gybed in front of her my motions and possibly lines MAY have come close to her.
Sea Lotus:You could have jibed and stayed at the pocket while she would ride the shoulder, i think that would be perfectly fine with her as she wouldn't even know you are there.
\Here, I think the others are correct, it was her wave even if she was way out on the shoulder. After hearing the comments here, I think it would have been at the least rude for me to take it. She probably would have been scared off.
Sea Lotus:But i don't get what the guru is saying here, is he saying "get agro" as jibe behind her, race downwind to the shoulder, bottom turn in front of her and claim "your" wave with a surprise attack?
I was in front and upwind. Eventually, maybe some bottom turns would have been in her way...who knows.
Thanks all...learning experience