If the plug wobbles after you tighten it, you might have damaged the plastic threads in the board. Like others have said, the vent has a plastic/rubber seal. That seal presses against the board to prevent water ingress:
That gap between the board and the circumference of the plug is normal. When you sail, a tiny bit of water pools there because the sealing happens a little bit below the surface of the board.
check the seal (o-ring) and check the plastic threads and report back.