Of those, imho, the Aerotech AirX and it should work fine on an rdm. The Voodoo 4.0 is too small and the Simmer is definitely a no-no for what you are doing. The Voodoo 4.7 should work on an rdm but I'd be concerned about its lifespan if the AirX is in good shape. btw, rdm is definitely preferable since I'm spending your money.

There's nothing wrong with a cammed sail on your rig if you get a proper freeride foil sail (e.g Sailworks Flyer, Severne Foil Glide). But those are very different than a fin slalom race sail in design and feel.
At our size, a 4.7, maybe 5.4 and 6.5 would be a nice quiver with some overlap. When you are more skilled, you could go 4.7-6.0/6.5. For where we live I'd hesitate to go smaller than 6.5 or there will be a lot of summer days where you'll be frustrated.
The 4.0 really wouldn't be useful for foiling until the wind is 20+ consistently and it sounds like you'll be finning in those conditions. While you are spending money, if you want to keep finning, keep an eye out for a modern 85ish l board. 70 is small except for those absolutely ripping days (again, imho). The newer board will have much more range than the ATV and much easier to sail.
Again, spending money that's not mine - echoing Robertos: spending money on better gear gets you a lot more time on the water. And the time you are on the water is easier and more fun. It's super common for when people upgrade their gear to say, "wow, I really wish I'd done this a while ago."