Hi Al,
Sorry to read your story.
People often think that me/the mods read every single post on every single forum (there's 50 of them), and because somebody has posted something, the mods have "allowed it", which is simply not the case.
It's a bit like suggesting Mark Zuckerberg is responsible for every post on Facebook.
We can't/don't read everything - we're not psychic!

No "blind eye". No favourtism.
If you're unhappy, you need to let us know, either via PM, or report the post ..