Don't get me started! Oh wait, you already did.
It's our FARKING fault...... Or at least those parents in the 20 to 40 age bracket have brought up a bunch of whiny, self centred apes who believe it is their god given right to be perfect in every way. They are the best drivers, the best workers, the best surfers and they believe in their hearts that they are truly BETTER than anyone else around them......
Why? Because they didn't score in their six year old soccer game, so there were no losers. When they played musical chairs, there was a chair for every kid so no one missed out, they were never smacked, they were reasoned with and asked to contemplate their decisions, in short, they never learned how to lose, or how to respect others, and accept responsibility for their actions.. Fark em.....
What can we do? Continue their education, BUT smacking and getting angry at them them doesn't do it, it just makes them think we're cranky old farts.... Which we are, but, if you simply outline what they did wrong, and how it may impact them, they will get it..... Sure, they may tell you to piss off at the time, but later on they'll remember what you said and hopefully thank you for it.
Had a kid take off on a wave I was already on last Sunday. He was 10 or so. He got up and I surfed in beside him into the shore. When we got there I said, did your Dad tell you what a drop in was when he was teaching hot surf? He said no, so I told him what he had done was drop in on me, and apart from being impolite, it could be dangerous, especially of he got his head smacked by a 10'1" Diverse single fin...... He was sheepish, but said thanks. Later I congratulated him on getting a good one and all was well with the world. it seemed to me that he looked up to me because I had showed him respect by teaching him something.
It's a bit different with the older ones though, especially the 40 somethings who are trying to impress their kids, sometimes they do need a smack upside the head, or at least saying to them "how tough are you going to look when you have to explain to your wife why you got punched out in front of your kids" that usually works for the smart arses.
So take the challenge, if someone does the wrong thing, and you get the chance to tell them so, tell them.... Otherwise we're just part of the problem...
Oh dear, that was a rant...... Better take a powder....