Couldn't resist this someone asking for an opinion. I've got heaps.
Ted, I agree, if you feel strongly enough you should call someone out if they are doing the wrong thing. The problem is that it generally goes straight past their limited intellect.
I was paddling out at Tea Tree Bay some months ago when a guy blatantly dropped in on another surfer. I called out " hey mate, there is someone inside you". I got the evil eye and a snear. Shortly after this chap asked me what my problem was, I said " I thought I would let you know there was a guy inside in case you hadn't seen him".
His reply " Get Farked grandad".
I wondered how he new I was a grandfather. Anyway, it is unfortunate that there is an element in surfing that has an "it's all about me" attitude. This can be seen throughout our society unfortunately. It is also sad that a lot of people that are regarded by the masses as elite top level sportsmen have the same attitude. Not all but some.
I do not believe that we can educate our way to all surfers having the right approach, we are dealing with people, and currently our society is displaying a very selfish and self centred approach to lots of things.
This attitude has been around to some degree for ever. I am over 60 and have surfed since I was 14, it is worse now but has always been there. I grew up in Cronulla in the late 60's and early 70's and it existed then. Though to a much lesser degree.
I don't know if there is a solution, calling someone is good, letting them know they are in the wrong us good, showing consideration is good, obeying the unwritten rules is essential
An alternative is to be very selective about the times and places that you surf so as to avoid the masses. I find myself taking time off through the week to avoid crowds, or surfing on the rise or fall of a swell, or taking regular short trips to less crowded places.
The best you can do is to be the best you can be.
ET.