Thanks for suggestions.
Saw some SUPer's out near spit @ Huskisson and am rethinking the "not to surf at all" part

. Looks fun, easy to get to and waves not too big.
Tried a couple of boards on Jervis Bay (South Coast NSW).
Mainly flat, with some very small waves near Moona Moona Creek:
1. Husband's "Mongoboard"
mongoboards.com/ He's got the 10'6" X30 X 5 dark wooden board on webpage.
Good price @ $1250 for package: board, deck pad, leash, bag, carbon fibre paddle.
BUT really hard for me to handle in/out of water and on/off car (weight, size).
i.e. nearly dropped more than once.
No idea about quality, other than it looks pretty

.
Pretty useless if I can't carry it properly.
He falls off alot trying it in surf (is kiteboarder, not surfer).
I wouldn't want to try in surf as don't want to be whacked with such a big/heavy board.
Managed to hit myself with it falling off in the bay, in relatively flat conditions (!), and that was bad enough.
2. Big Laird 12" (I think) soft top, old 2nd hand.
Fine on bay with very small waves (near Moona Moona creek)
Bit heavy to handle, but otherwise seemed OK.
Any suggestions for lightest, easy to carry boards? i.e. < 11kg?
Any thoughts on the SOFT tops?
Better or worse for lightness and durability?
Something like
www.gumtree.com.au/s-ad/cronulla/surfing/sunjam-soft-sup-package/1018010692 ?
or (bamboo type?)
www.gumtree.com.au/s-ad/riverwood/surfing/sup-bamboo-stand-up-paddle-board-top-quality-cabon-paddle/1013255381Realistically, its a big deterrent if it's a struggle getting into the water and either me or board consistently getting damaged.
Hoping paddling will help build some better upper body strength, but still need something manageable to start with.
Thanks for all the help.
Great forum.