My thoughts. I wouldn't be game to install a Paralleling Switch for House Batteries & Engine Start Battery. The only time I can think something like this may be required is when the engine start battery is flat and you need power to start the engine.
If the engine start battery was only just short of enough grunt to start the engine then its terminal voltage may still be reasonable and if the house batteries were connected to it, the inrush current would not be too scary. But if the engine start battery was flat due to an internal fault/short, then connecting a good set of say 800A house batteries to it has the potential to unload a lot of current in a short time into the fault. The result could be quite scary and a loud noise, molten lead and acid could appear from nowhere!!.
I have 5 x 160A batteries and each battery is capable of unloading 1,600A for 5 seconds. That's a combined total of 8,000A at you finger tips. If you have a paralleling switch on your boat, just make sure you know what you are connecting this beast to when you rotate that little paralleling switch (probably rated about 400A)
On my boat, there is no connecting between the house batteries and engine start battery positive terminals, but the negative terminals have been commoned up. I have a change over switch installed which allows the engine starter motor (and engine circuits) to EITHER receive power from the engine start battery OR the house batteries but never both at the same time.
Also my engine battery is sealed lead acid and the house batteries are AGM which have different charging requirements.
I saw in another forum topic where the guy requesting information on the electrics for a winch was advised to connect the positive terminals of his house and engine start batteries. I hope the information I have just provided my enable a more informed decision be made before doing this connection.
My thoughts anyway