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Bananabender said..
Your a lucky man to have a willing partner . Don't put if off.
I was in two minds about replying to your post as there are hundreds of such over the years most of which stay dreams .I have not been out of sight of land for more than 5 days at a time so am by no means the sage old salt your looking for however you remind me of an Irishman who crewed for me in Melb a long time ago.
IMO the quickest way to learn to sail in all conditions is to race as you have to go to a specific point irrespective of weather. HOWEVER you have to pick the right boat. ie nothing longer than 35 feet so you multitask and get the feel of a boat in the size range you will own. Look for such a boat that does the ORCV series to get ocean passages and overnight experience. I presume your a crew member with a yacht club ,if not join. Take time to go to the ORCV office and introduce yourself. Naturally your wife will also do above. Most times on passage races a newby learns more on the return trip in a relaxed atmosphere where the skipper is very inclined to let you helm etc.etc. You will also get involved in preparing the boat like sanding down the antifoul .aggh.
Sure you should do the courses to equip you with the knowledge to wisely and safely make the right decisions and what to do when the sh.. hits the fan.
It will.
Sailing 'around the world ' covers a hell of a lot. Eg you want to go down in the great southern ocean or stay in the tropics.
I have a lot of respect for those who sail offshore without the comfort of a race around them to lean on when in trouble so will not go into boats etc. except to say that the Pink Lady cost well in excess of $100,000 to prepare and what you need to sail non stop around the world may not suit cruising in the tropics island hopping with the winds abeam/ behind. Don't get me wrong the SS34 is a classic ocean passage boat.
Good Luck
Just a thought, I don't know what side of PP your at but visit a few clubs and have a look at the boats and skippers on a Sat or Wed.
HBYC ,RMYC or RYCV may offer more of what you want than Sandy and BYC
I really appreciate your response. It means a lot, all the information I can get means the world at the moment.
She's an absolute legend, my wife. Coordinated and strong too...she'll look good scrambling around on deck fixing my mistakes. I think I'm going to get roaring on a Competent Crew, wifey too, and do a bit of a crash course. As far as the S&S goes, it's just the strength and safety of the vessel that impresses me. I was hoping on picking one up in the $20-50k range and then I'd happily put about $60k into refitting her and putting the things that I need in there. I understand it could be a land anchor, getting all that ready, but I do like the idea of really knowing the boat and the systems, and I additionally like the idea that newer systems, while they do fail, are less likely to.
We have enough for the boat saved already and plan on getting together another $60k for the refit over the next 18 months, and if we live aboard we have our house that we can rent out which will cover our living expenses, on a budget, but safely.As far as where we want to go, unfortunately for us we like the more extreme end of the scale. As nightmarish as it seems, Macquarie Island, Auckland island, the west coast of NZ, the equatorial pacific heading east, Pitcairn, Easter Island, Patagonia, Falklands, St Helena, Mediterranean, The Black Sea, The North Sea, Ireland, South Shetland, Greenland...basically all the places an inexperienced sailor should absolutely not sail in for a while...I'm basically talking the missus out of going straight south until we hit ice. Believe it or not, I'm the cautious one.God help us.