IMO the set up you described needs a battery bank of 2x120AH house batteries, preferably all AGM's with a solar panel of at least 200 better 300W to keep your beer cold and your mind at ease.
Solar panels charge 1/20th of their W per hour, so a 200W one would charge 10amps/h. This would give you 80AH charge a day, average.
AGM's could be fitted any which way you like, on their sides or upside down. No worries.
My set up is 2x120AH house 1x120AH starter which could be used as a back up, all AMG's, two on their sides charged by a 120W solar panel. No MPPT. The solar is too small to charge the batteries when l run my fridge, it needs help from the alternator every second day or so. It would need a 300W panel with MPPT to keep my fridge cold permanently and the electronics running.
As far as your 'very bright' ikea lights are concerned, if you are planning to sail at night, those bright lights are going to kill your night vision! You need red lights everywhere at night especially at the chart table. A red LED strip, or your girlfriends red nail polish would cure this, thou!