[I'll apologize in advance for a overly brief description of sail aerodynamics.
The best single reference I know of is:
www.nz.northsails.com/RADUploads/How-Sails-Work.pdf]
High-speed aircraft (ex. jet airliners) use wing sweep to reduce drag as the approach the speed of sound.
At the speeds we operate other effects are more important.
There are significant aerodynamic effects of sweep/rake, but as mentioned above, it is often used for the practical purpose of shifting the center-of-effort fore/aft to trim the boat's handling.
This is also done with aircraft, a notable example being the DC-3. The leading edge of the wing was slightly swept late in the design to shift the lift aft to balance the plane without major structural redesign.
First, the
induced drag (i.e. the drag generated simply as a result of creating lift) is inversely proportional to the
aspect ratio of a wing/sail (i.e. longer/narrower wings generate less drag than wider/shorter wings of the same area).
Second, the most important effect of sweep at our speeds has to do with the varying
angle of attack (AOA) along the leading edge of the sail.
In general, the AOA
increases from the base to the tip of a an
aft-sweep sail.This means that the top of a sail is mostly likely stall first.
This effect is independent of any change in wind angle with height above the ground.
Conversely, a the AOA
decreases from the base to the tip in a
forward-sweep sail. You may think that a forward sweep isn't important for sailboats, but the sweep is measured at the
quarter-chord line (i.e. the point 1/4 from the front of the sail), so for a tapered sail with a vertical leading edge (ex. the mainsail on a typical boat) the sail is actually swept forward (see diagram below).
Finally, the AOA also
increases along the leading edge of a
tapered sail/wing.
Since we tend to have somewhat aft-swept, tapered sails, the biggest effect to consider is the increase in AOA from the base to the tip of the sail.
This is the reason that the tell-tales at the top of the sail stall first (and why most sails are cut with some twist in them).