My new waist harness (flying objects) hurts the hell out of my hips. Fitted fine in the shop.... am I maybe strapping the harness to low will another harness be better. Any one else who had this issue?

Have you got an old spreader bar that may be wider or shorter to test?

Ignore all the following posts suggesting a different brand. Try to work with it first. I always get a numb waist with any new harness or wettie so sometimes it goes.

Yeah just give it a few sessions and it should come right

Tell your boyfriend to move his hands higher

There's always got to be that one knob that thinks he's funny Cheers to the rest I'll try different spreaderbar and settings.