hello,
Tarifa is probably the best bet. might be a little crowded but windy most of the time in the summer. too windy sometimes too. the scenery is very nice, the food good and not too expensive. there are plenty of camping, rental cars, and gibraltar is not too far.
probably the easiest place to go in terms of flying and renting a car.
the small city is quite nice too at night for parties.
you also have a few different spot to kite and if no wind, going around is nice.
and the flamenco music is on the radio too .....

marc-a.