I agree with checking out what the locals are doing. If its windy, and noone is out, there is probably a reason.
Just use common sense, and do go out when its too windy. Or even when its too light. All my self rescues have been when it wasnt windy enough for me to relaunch a wet kite

. Trust me they arent fun, and neither are the tangles resulting from it.
But yeh, get out there as much as you can, and gradually build up the wind strength.