Hi Zigs,
this is a tricky repair especially if you don't have any prior experience with patching holes with tear-aid. I agree with Sandee's advice, you need to cut the excess bladder that is flapping, clean the area very well with alcohol and make sure your tear-aid patch is quite large and doesn't stick to the other side of the bladder. Using an old bladder to prevent sticking on the other side is a good idea, but still needs to be done very well.
You also need to make sure there are zero creases with your patch otherwise the air will find an escape and you'll have to start all over again (a poorly applied tear-aid patch can easily be removed using methylated spirits, then cleaned very well with alcohol before attempting a re-patch).
Also avoid working with tear aid in cold or humid areas. use a blow dryer to pre-heat the area and get rid of any moisture which can greatly improve the adhesion.
You can easily order a new LE bladder with valves pre-installed, depending on the size of the kite you can usually get one custom made and shipped to you in less than 2 weeks for under $200 all up. We order all our bladders from Dr. Tuba (Slovenia)
drtuba.eu/ shipped via DHL (super fast).
Hope this helps and good luck
Christian