Social researcher and psychologist Hugh Mackay has spent 40 years asking Australians about their lives, loves, hopes, ambitions, fears and passions. In
The Good Life, he asks and answers the ultimate question: What makes a life worth living? His conclusion, drawn from his research, is provocative and passionately argued. A good life is not measured by security, wealth, status, achievement or levels of happiness. A good life is determined by our

capacity for selflessness and our willingness to connect with those around us in a meaningful and useful way.
You just described what an author took a whole book to relate in one paragraph.
It's a good read though if anyone is looking for a holiday book.