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Crusoe said..
There is a lot to be said for positive thinking. People with a positive attitude are also nicer to engage with. It's like playing a sport against someone who is better than you, you (or they) seem to lift your game.
I remember seeing a video of a guy on a train who was laughing, it was a set up, but other people on the train joined in in the laughter. I'm sure they ended up feeling better for it.
If you live your life like Glum from the children's cartoon Gullivers Travels, you are not going to enrich the lives of others around you.
Put a smile on your face, the people around you will be better off, which in turn will help to lift your game. Might also keep the Black Dog out of you life :)
That's nothing to do with Dunning-Kruger.
But anyway, there's a (crazy?) guy that sits alongside the main thoroughfares in Sydney city with a jukebox playing super happy tunes, and he kinda sways around with a big smile on his face, trying to spread the happy mood he is in. (he kinda looks like he is still going from the night before, if you follow)
Now, if I'm already in a decent or better mood he's pretty funny. He might be stark raving mad but I have to admit he makes me smile. People have started taking selfies with him and such. He is super positive.
However, if I'm truly having a bad morning, serious stress in my life, he make me feel a lot worse. He comes off like a shallow ****ing git that has no ****ing idea what some people are going through, and it's all well and good he doesn't have those problems but he doesn't have to go rubbing it in everyone's face like that. ****ing, shallow, mindless, asshole.
He has no idea how he affects some people some of the time. He makes us worse. We just don't say anything.
I can guarantee you someone on that train with the guy laughing wanted to knock his teeth in.
Happy people make happy people happier, and sad people sadder. Sad people make sad people happier, and happy people sadder.