Hi all, have a Bavaria 38 cruiser that my wife and I bought, my wife convinced me to buy her the plan being we would sail as a couple, I was going to buy smaller. Anyway, sadly it ends up she gets panicked when out on the water and she has virtually given up on the idea of sailing. I on the other hand love it, have become a fairly competent inshore skipper, and am very keen to take the next steps to become a coastal and then possibly offshore sailor. So I am left with a Bavaria 38 that has been set up nicely that I either have to learn to sail single-handed (albeit having crew occasionally) or sell her

and buy a smaller one eg 30 - 34 foot. Shis is a 2004 Bavaria 38 cruiser and setup nicely for possible single-handing with all lines all coming back to the cockpit. We are about to move back to Adelaide so I feel under pressure on making a decision as it is much easier to sell her in Sydney (and easier to find a smaller boat) I am also keen for advice re .finding a mentor that can be hired for some hours to come to Pittwater on my yacht to give me some practical skippering and sailing tips I have booked to do the RYA Day Skipper practical certificate.