Gidday sonny ..RDM mast are softer true ..me and a bunch of mates all use 80-100% RDM 460 's ,we ocean sail a lot so ..more control .especially when you have swell and need the extra flexing of the mast .
I understand what north are saying ..with the Sdm mast being better in ...flatter water ..as it gives you more drive ..and bottom end with cammed and bigger sails.
I use both depending on the conditions ..and have noticed this from experience in using both ..
but I'm with you ..I like the RDMs .. Better .
Every sail is different and behaves different With the mast you put in it ...some sails are awful with RDMS ..NO GRUNT .to soft.
I have just changes sail brand s to Ezzy ..they work perfect with both ..
I reckon use what feels good to you ..but Im sure they would love to sell you another mast .
I have had north sails in the past ..and they do like the correct mast ..they are fussy ..but still nice sails .
i still have a 5.9 ego and it ONLY works with a 430 RDM .

It's still a fav.