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Toph said..
While I agree with the sentiments so far on this post, I do wonder if you were both on the same page.
If he was doing it 'on the side' because he is on wages elsewhere, and he is possibly doing the work somewhat cheaper, was he only expecting to do the work in his own time while you were expecting the work to be done as a 'full time job'?
This may only explain his lack of progress in the job at hand. It doesn't excuse the lack of communication or the stealing of your belongings.
Hello Toph
at the outset, things were very considered and we were both indeed on the same page.
I was aware that the job was not going to be finished overnight, however, we had agreed upon a timeframe. I was more than understanding and tolerant when excuse after excuse, promise after promise was tendered and broken. One would have to meet this 'gentleman' to understand he is the type who could sell snow to the Inuit.
In terms of moneys paid for work done? I have paid more than adequately for what has actually transpired over the past 3-odd months.
As the friend who I finally engaged to retrieve some of my gear from said 'gentleman' remarked, "...he's up to his old tricks again...". Today, I have spoken to a few other people locally who have a sad story to share. Had I only known all this prior to the event. However, as we know, hindsight is ever such a grand thing.
Perhaps I should not have named him publicly in this environment. Maybe I will be reported and be banned from here. Perhaps I will be sued for libel and slander. Who knows?
I just don't think a person like this has the right to treat others in this manner. Finally, I feel the need to reclaim some of the power which this man has taken from me, knowingly, day after day, for the past months.
Tracey