It is a real shame, that you had to compromise on your dream yacht for the sake of a newbie partner and the corporate &%$#s who would not give a toss in the first place.
I see the change of the steering arrangement as a kind of prostitution where a perfectly good reliable design gets screwed by the need to satisfy the 'corporate world' which is the bane of humanity in the first place. Strewth!
I did not know, there is politics involved.

As a mostly single hander l have rules for myself which l never ever compromise on. (Well, this is rule No1, the one that l never compromise on my own rules.)
This is my way of dealing with safety and sail handling issues on my 28 feet Adams.
One of this rules are - whatever anyone thinks or says about it - l never ever under any circumstances sail or motor without wearing a pfd with a harness, safety tethers attached while sailing on my own. When leaving the cockpit l clip onto the Jack-line running bow to cockpit on both sides. Above 20-25 knots l clip on while inside the cockpit, as well. No exceptions, no compromises, no just...!
Well, one of the rules is "never ever tow any dinghy while motoring or sailing". Period.
It might sound strange but it works for me.
I don't want to qualify the degree of danger towing different types of dinghies but the inflatable type with motor attached is the most lethal of them all.
I left the following subject out of my previous post on purpose, however, Ross mentioned it, so l put my two bob's worth in.
Beside all this discipline issues as a retired educator l would find 9 teenagers to deal with, simultaneously, and sail in 25-30 knot winds, more than a handful knowing the youngsters unsteady, abrupt nature. They could snap at any time, do the most unexpected things and react illogically and obstreperously. They are developing personalities and so, unsteady, undeveloped and could become a danger to themselves and each others. And to the boat. Most of them are ticking time bombs. Mines too. A few, may be fine, but nine? Hmmm.
Sailing is an inherently dangerous sport at best of times. Unfortunately, your situation is a textbook case, an otherwise perfectly safe sailing trip could turn into a chain of compounding disasters in a very short time. For anybody. At any time.
I would like to say to you: thanks for bringing it to our attention as a parable, for everyone's benefit.
Your openness might save lifes and teach all of us a lesson.
Good on ya Shaggy!
Btw, there is absolutely nothing wrong sailing in higher winds at all as long as one is capable of handling it.