Roberts 38s I have been told have a reputation as the worst dog sailer Roberts ever put out.
Steel yachts appeal to many novice sailors because of a perception of strength in steel. Weight for weight, aluminium is much stronger than steel and when aluminium is exposed to air it immediately oxidizes on the surface which protects it from further oxidization unlike steel which just continues to oxidize until it has reached 7 times it's original volume by which time there is no steel left, just ferrous oxide.
If you insist on a metal yacht I highly recommend getting an aluminium yacht. Properly built they will probably out last any material except fibre glass. Nobody knows yet how long a fibre glass yacht will last because to date no properly built fibre glass yacht has fallen apart.
I owned this aluminium yacht for 7 years and never had a problem with the hull or deck. It's real name is ENVY II. The guy who bought it from me insisted he had to rename it after his daughter. It is listed for $89,000 but I think a realistic price is in the $45-50,000 range. It will need some money spent on her as all yachts do. An amazing yacht and she could accommodate 11 people easily.
Listing here.
http://yachthub.com/list/yachts-for-sale/used/sail-monohulls/peterson-44-serendipity/189650 However with your criteria listed:-
"I am looking for a good solid cruising yacht around 35 foot to do some coastal cruising in the near future with a view to getting further afield and out into the south Pacific in a year or two. So something ok to live aboard and good on the open water is important, as well as something relatively easy to handle short handed. Performance is probably less important than reliability/ease of use."
Performance AND reliability/ease of use is most important. Do you want to be anchor down and sipping sun downers before dark or still slogging your way in to the anchorage at 2300 hours??
I have something else that, if it does not warm the cockles of your heart should at least tickle your fancy.
"Starlight Express" is an S&S 36 built by Prestige Yachts in W.A. that I have been looking after for a friend (a fellow Seabreezer) for the last year and also showing it to buyers that he sends occasionally.
I went down to her today to check her lines, bilges, batteries and engine. The Kubota engine fired up first kick but the house batteries have gone flat due to something not switched off. The stereo I think. So I rang my mate to keep him up to date and he informed me he has dropped the price from $50,000 to $40,000 as he just wants it sold so he can concentrate on his new yacht charter business.
This is a rock solid yacht and it is a bargain. If you or anybody else is interested send me a private message.
This is her. Notice the brand new Flemming on the back of her.
sparkmanstephens.blogspot.com.au/2011/04/design-2432-prestige-36.html This is the listing:-
www.boatpoint.com.au/boats-for-sale/private/used/SSE-AD-3568466/1985-Sparkman-Stephens-36? It was originally for sale at $65,000.
sailboatdata.com/viewrecord.asp?class_id=6511 If this doesn't keep you awake tonight, it should.
Edit:- Re the comment by the lister of the Roberts 38 about whales and containers sinking "plastic" boats.
I was recently on a "plastic" boat doing about 10 knots in the middle of the night when we hit a whale. I and the boat are still here to tell the tale. The boat suffered a minor scratch.