Well I've had my expert onboard and he found that the solar panel is OK and the remaining house battery is OK.
But, we found that the inline fuse from the solar regulator to the starter battery was very hot!
Switched to that battery and tried to start the diesel .... absolutely dead

So problem solved, I'm up for a new set of batteries, already lost one of the house batteries, [but that's another story]
so will replace all of them and move the surviving house battery to the caravan.
Thanks for for all your help fellows.