Hello Rob
This is how my boat is set up and your requirements may be different.
I'm currently replacing my deck wash pump (down at the boat today). My original was a Jabsco 90L/m belt driven pump with a hand operated clutch and the new one is the same size pump but has an electric clutch (like your cars air conditioner has). I replaced the pump as the parts to service the clutch arrangement were hard to come by and very expensive. I've never used this pump to it's full capacity or probably never even got to 50%.
These pumps can never run dry so I'm also looking at interlocking the new clutch power switch with a proximity (limit) switch which will be mounted on the seacock (somehow). With the old set up it was a bit more effort to get to the hand clutch and it was always me swinging on the end of it. An electric clutch makes it a lot safer to operate, can be mounted in a more accessible location, but about a 1000 time easier to turn the pump on and run it dry.
The pump has it's own seacock. I installed this as one of my fears is the engine overheating and I would never want to do anything that may lead to this event. (as the Offspring song goes - You've got to keep em separated). The deck wash only runs when the engine is running so I don't want them competing for the same water. It might not be a problem when you have a new impeller in your engine water pump but it may be an issue as the impeller wears. (my thoughts). The engine may be noisy, stink and cost money to run but when it doesn't go, your pretty well in the $hit and up for more money
I also have a 3-way valve so I can use this Jabsco pump to draw directly from the bilge in the event the boat is holed and something scary like that. I think the idea of being able to put fresh water through the pump has merit as when I first turn on my pump to wash the anchor chain it stinks. A squirt of fresh at the end of each use would sole this. I actually have a fresh water outlet in my cockpit I can attach a handheld shower to. This is also capable of taking a garden hose fitting which I some times use when I need to wash something further a field with fresh water.
I mainly use this Jabsco pump to clean the anchor chain as it comes on board. Below are a few pickies of the attachment I use for doing this. I tie the cord loosely to the forestay to hold it in place as the chain comes on board. Once the anchor is stowed I give the foredeck & bow roller a bit of a squirt to clean up. I only have the pump idling over to clean the chain other wise it sprays everywhere and everything including me while I'm assisting the chain into the locker.
I don't wash my solar panels with salt water as they get plenty of this when I'm sailing. I normally just wipe them down with fresh water and wait till I get back to a marina to give them a squirt of fresh.
Using the toilet seacock would be a good idea if it is a suitable size. I'm not sure but you may need to put a non-return valve in the toilet line to stop the obvious.
Making a set up where you can hang the suction over the side until you get the opportunity to put a new skin fitting in sounds like a good solution. Your engine will continue to love you for it.
Cheers